Divorce is too complex a process to produce just winners and losers. People adjust in many different ways and these patterns of adjusting change over time.
That was the easy part.getting the divorce. It’s the aftermath that’s the hard part. When you’re living it, it’s so magnified. It literally takes the air out of you.
A large majority of individuals in unhappy marriages who hang in there and avoid divorce end up reporting their marriages are very happy a few years later.